its only cloth.

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when i was a little girl… (and yes let me start this out by saying i am a female in real life and most of the time in second life) i wanted to be a little boy.. not like.. have a penis and all that.. but i wanted to wear boy clothes, play with boy toys, and get to do things boys were doing… my family and teachers did not like that, and while my parents were a bit more relaxed, my grandmother was VERY dead set on making sure i remembered that i was a girl… pink everywhere, dresses all the time, no mud, no gi joes, only barbie barbie barbie…

as i got older and had more control over what i could wear and do, i chose to dress more androgynous and i had friends who did the same. i once dated a guy who wore dresses, and i would wear suits to match. we shared clothes and it was fun, nothing weird to me or him about it. the school of course was not happy, and later on to be an ass, i wore a suit and tie to school every day for a year.

to me, clothing is clothing. it doesn’t mean you are a certain gender, or sex, it doesn’t mean you are gay, straight, bi, transgender, intersexed, genderqueer, or anything else you wanna lable with. it means you are not naked, you are wearing clothes.

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what am i? i honestly don’t care…

for Gabe, because i ❤ him, even though i do not know him… you are beautiful.

 

credits:

Blouse: :::Sn@tch  Kingston Blouse

Corset: *L.inc* Lust Corset Black

Skirt: :::Sn@tch Nightmare Skirt

Hair: ::Exile:: Lucia: Roots – Midnight mix

Skin: LAQ Elena 01 [ Pale] Glow Skin

Nails: Mstyle perfect hand – Sharp v1.12

Eyes: :: Exodi :: Riven Eyes (fire)

Makeup: La malvada Mujer – Rigor Mortis Makeup

Poses: Glitterati

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Summer time.. and the living’s easy..

summertimes

do not adjust your monitors.. yes i am blonde O_O. the new dress from grixdale made me feel all summery and beachy so i decided to bust out the blonde hair and hit the beach! i am envious of my avatar right now..

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i’ve accessorized this outfit with this beautiful necklace/earring set from MOOD. jori’s jewelry is always stunning but usually is a bit fancy for my usual style (maybe i should just get fancy more often so i can wear her stuff :p) i loved the simplicity of this set, and the chaotic tangle of chain links suits me just fine. you can find it at the fashion garret for a limited time, i am not sure if she is going to have this available in her store after its time there, so do make sure to grab it while you can!

Grixdale - Emery - Last Call - Sale

while’ i’m on the subject of stuff you should grab while you can, grixdale is retiring the emery line in preparation for a new version. she hasn’t decided when she’s taking these out of the store so you should get there fast and grab them while you can!

and finally, if you’re not grixdale’ed out yet… i wanted to show off the adorable mr soggy bottom doll that mini-me (my kid alt juliet) grabbed yesterday!

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i have him on big me too but since he is in the kids area i figured i would let my kid wear him :p he comes in several colours and then this particular version of him is available at a discount as part of a new weekly event!

phew.. that’s all for me for now, i’m going to go relax on this beach while you go shopping…

shopping list:

eyes: :: Exodi :: Riven Eyes – Fire

hair: Exile Petra:  TDR Exclusive colors – Harlow

skin: Grixdale – Ren -  Sparrow  – Mint

dress: Grixdale -Letters Home – Halter Dress – Grass

jewelry: ::MOOD:: Chaos Ensemble ~ Gun Metal @ the Fashion Garret

poses: exposeur

free as my hair

those who know me know that there was a long stretch of time in my life where i wore nothing but bright acid green hair. these days i’ve calmed down a bit with more natural tones but i still love to rock my crazy hair colours once in a while.

gogo issued a challenge.. and i could not help but accept it.

What is Bubblegum Weekends?

What:

This challenge encourages YOU to wear unnatural hair colors (Pink, Blue, Green, Purple, etc.)

When:

Every weekend! Saturday and Sunday. If you want to do it on Friday, that’s cool too 🙂

How:

Create a category or tag for your blog called Bubblegum Weekends and be sure to categorize your posts. Don’t forget to submit your pictures to the Bubblegum Weekends Flickr group so we can all check it out 🙂

so here you go!

bubblegumweekendjune17

 

shopping list:

hair: >TRUTH< Cleo – lime

skin: -Glam Affair – Layla Grey B

eyes: [T.U] Hypno Eyes – Lime – lrg

lashes: [ glow ] studio – Innocent. eyelashes – soft |<DK> Glitter Lashes

eyemakup: candy doll – smokey eyeshadow (from tatted hunt)

two sides

in real life i was always blah about wearing dresses or really even just shopping, so i sometimes find it amusing that in second life i am constantly shopping for clothes and wearing a ton of cute dresses and stuff… there are really two sides to me..

the tom boy

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who apparently looks like a 9 year old boy according to the noob in encountered last night.

and there’s the girly me

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who seems to only live in the magical world of second life :p

shopping list:

girly
Hair: [e] Vivid – Black 04
Skin: Grixdale – Ren – Sugar – Clover (cleav)(Br)
Eyes: :: Exodi :: Riven Eyes (Fire) (Lg/V)

Dress: *Dilly Dolls* Bennie Teal
Shoes: *DillyDolls* Laurell Light Flats

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hair: .ploom. Penelo – Emerald
skin: –Glam Affair – Layla Light skin – my sweet vampire BL HB (zombie popcorn)
eyes: REPULSE – Lacerated v4 Eyes (zombie popcorn)

Shirt: .:villena:. – use your brain tshirt (zombie popcorn)
Pants: KOSH– LINEN SHORTS -petrol- (zombie popcorn)
Shoes: *BC322 Slip on sneaker BW/ (zombie popcorn)
Tattoo: [arnadi] – Tattoo Hell Mex

poses:

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